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After a Loss of your Son or Daughter
  First thing to rememeber.is..
    . ________ You are Not Alone...
    Even when all is done and family and friends are gone
    deep down you know they are there for you. Just a phone call away.
    While  many friends are supportive around the time of the death, grieving  people often discover that support fades shortly after the funeral. 
    Many people mistakenly believe that grief is so personal we  want to keep it to ourselves. 
  When someone is going  through a bad time, we tend to leave them alone, often because their  situation makes US feel uncomfortable. 
  
  
  Sometimes  it's not until the actual funeral, that the reality of what has  happened finally sinks in.Certain  dates such as birthdays or anniversaries will make the sadness and  grief feel worse; however, as each year passes the sadness will  lessen until the sufferer no longer feels you must hold onto the  past.


